Tuesday, March 25, 2008

A beatific experience

Families get together at home on Monday, where close relatives were invited for lunch on the memorial day of great grandfather. Not often I could get chance by having everyone at same time, every year on this day and on least some other time we (no, I) get-together with close relatives. Not every time my dear cousin sister would joining with us on occasion like this, where she mostly would be away with her parent, but it was rarely and I was happy on her presence when others come. She is one, more than anything to me, and not to miss for any reason, but I would agree for what ever reason she has to be away from us. I feel I could understand her, but fail mostly where I can’t and she well knows me how I react for what and what could be my thought on which. I was been on thoughts about her these days and some imaginations of uncle being alive, living with her and the existing happier life more than before. This is only a desire now I know which won’t comes true, but no one can stop it flowing into mine, which are some beautiful thoughts I enjoy whenever it flows.

Maya is more attentive with others, esp. my sis was so fondling on her and was playful. It was uneasy for mom and aunties to get her away from disturbing the preparation of lunch and harder to change her interest from biting the vegetables. She never is silent being left alone inside rooms, with in seconds starts to make loud noise in tender throat. Cousins who are more wished to see maya, but haven’t been because of annual exams, by now they have seen the pictures of maya taken last evening. The weekend was truly bored, and I was feeling Monday as Sunday where I can’t concentrate particularly and to increase the moment, rain was poring heavily and the cool climate in evening sends us pleasant.
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My sister and pup maya

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Most of the relatives left before evening and without steady I was expecting to take dear ones to beach. No more, they have there own plans to reach home and tried to not disappoint and to disclose my wish, asked grandpa who is likely to come with me. After dropping sis and aunty at there stops, we drove to beach where it was covered by cooler breeze and waves of low pressure into sea. There were clouds passing above sea like steam train yet release smoke and looking beyond to wonder is space and sea that never ends. Like my sis, I love my grandfather whom I wish for a healthy long life, but it disturbs me from his heart troubles. It was long time wish that exist today being alone with grandpa and grandma the place I loved almost. Beach is the only place I often visit and those times looking at children with grandparents it desires me in replacing them, but it was too late I have grown and situation not left to play. It was there occupation that never gives opportunity for entertaining in those days. Today they are occupied with television and resting inside home, where they never moves out unnecessary; and I feel it is necessary for them to come out for a change and enjoy what they forget in life.

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My grandparent's

I am more interest having both of them with us and taking care to give trouble free life, but they are not willing to move from the place they lived almost there lives. The evening was beautiful for me, is the weather to add the platform of beach paradise and grandparents to give company. I will always looking for such circumstance to come often and you dear friends pls wish me for that.

18 comments:

Alok said...

Oh! I sure wish u such more such moments Jeevan .. I am glad u captured this beautiful day on ur blog ...


Alok

Ghost Particle said...

bro, i loved this post more than ever. you have family in your heart, and they have you in their hearts. how you cherish each one of them are a god given gift for them, it comes from a true heart. I too wished than my grandparents would live a long lasting life, but now I am left only with grandma. but thats how life is, people come and leave, but the memories remain, in the heart there is no leaving.


have a nice week brother.

priya said...

It is so adorable:)

Solitaire said...

WOW! Truly blessed with a great family! And maya is soooo cute..

Keshi said...

wut a beautiful post on Family bonding! Love the pics. Maya is getting prettier by the day awwww :)

And ur grandparents are so adorable Jeevan! I hv no grandparents left - I miss em so very much :(


Keshi.

Azer Mantessa said...

i always wonder, why all grandmothers cook better than our mothers *scratch head*

senere beach sighting there and maya is soooooooooooooo cute

:-)

Annie said...

It is good to be with family, isn't it, Jeevan, and it is sad when we are apart. I write a letter each day to my mother and she writes one each day to me - this makes the distance seem much shorter.

You little dog is a pretty animal.

geetha said...

great experience with your family. The little doggie looks like a doll!
yeah, the old people tend to love where they have been staying than to move to a new place.. neverthless, u have a place to go back to and enjoy being with them for the holidays :)

Ponniyinselvan said...

dear jeevan,
this is the thiruvanmiyur beach , isn't it? This is where karthik and I used to sit and enjoy the sea breeze.how i wish the days to come back? DEAR ones are always NEEDED..AS YOUR UNCLE'S LOSS, MY LOSS TOO IS UNBEARABLE.
'maya' is damn cute.
karthik amma

Shiva said...

Jeevan,

looks like Maya is growing fast.

Glad that you had a good weekend with relatives. Always good to remember the forefathers.

Cheers

vishesh said...

grandparents are really nice...my grandpa who is 75 still goes to court everyday...he doesn't charge much and takes cases mostly for poor people...

the sea...it takes me some where else..

vishesh said...

grandparents are really nice...my grandpa who is 75 still goes to court everyday...he doesn't charge much and takes cases mostly for poor people...

the sea...it takes me some where else..

Cinderella. said...

jeevan your gramma reminds me of mine..she passed away last september...

I was her pet da...sigh...you are so lucky to have them with you. And you know your family bonding reminds me of my own...miss home now...

Lovely post !

Ash said...

Indeed yes. Your grandparents remind me of mine...who are no more.

Maya is adorable :-)

Mythily said...

Family post :) Cute maya...

Jeevan said...

Alok – Thanks a lot buddy :)

GP – Thanks so much bro. very true, the memories stays alive, still people are not alive. I wish your grandma always being there for you :) happy weekend.

Priya – Thank you :) hope u have a wonderful holidays.

Solitaire – Thanks so much solitaire…. :)

Kesi – you have put your pleasure on me dear, I don’t know what to tell for your wish that u miss. Thank you dear, maya is doing much naughty these days :)

Azer – because they made our mothers;) Thanks for sharing azer.

Annie – sure it is blessed to be with families. Being in touch is good for both of u, wish you both have a healthy relation forever. Thanks.

Geetha – Thank you dear, yes it looks like that. True, they won’t agree whatever reason to moven from there place, same time it is uncomfort for me visiting their home, but I wish a lot…..

Ponniyinselvan – yes it is! I wish the days are not away for us to be at beach :) Thank you.

Shiva – yes its growing and also attracting more kids to visit here. It was a nice weekend and through near is another weekend, the time Is running fast. Thanks friend :)

Vishesh – that was great about your grandpa vishesh, wish he does more… Thank you. the sea was in sky-blue color.

Cinderella – Thanks a lot for your visit Cinderella, I wish you have a family bonding soon. They may be away or no more, when we think about them they nearly exist. Take care :)

Ash – Thanks so much ash, wish u remind ur grandparents :)

Mythily – Thank you :)

krystyna said...

From deep of my heart I wish you much such beautiful days with your lovely grandparants and family.

Maya looks cute.

Thanks for sharing, Jeevan!

தூயா [Thooya] said...

Now i know the people and the places you are talking about...finally...heheh
i love your granny...