Thursday, May 10, 2012

Dad’s health cause

The last 5 days were not so good for us since dad health was little ill due to diarrhea and low sugar sent us to deep distress and once the diarrhea comes to halt, the low sugar sent him to shivering and slightly moving condition. One entire night he was restless between the bed and restroom and next day he was seen physically so weak and was forced to check the nearest clinic for medication and drips of glucose which gathered him strength but it doesn’t last as soon the sugar level decreased.

It went down as not so worrisome but the stressed intestine at other hand began to twist and pain and along with this he was mentally upset due to his condition and felt sorrow for not helping me on routines. Mom was indeed forced to take care of me single handedly with her already wrist and heels problem, it was impossible for me being easy and mind kept thinking about his health and wishing for a quick recovery.

On Monday he visited our family doctor and only later his health condition becomes better and again he took blood test on Tuesday which showed rise in blood sugar level as he didn’t take diabetic tablets in the confuse state on health and the cause of drips of glucose. He went out only late evening for a short walking after 4 days of suffering from health disaster and I could seen him little energetic now and bright smile on his face, which I wish last forever…

He’s also suppose to take a cataract operation at the end of the summer which has put forth lot of worries and if it is not for the surgery which has been nothing these days in the medical dictionary  taking care of me had been the worrisome for the three of us. Since after the surgery dad needs at least a month of rest for getting remedy and only mom has to take care of me, the toughness ahead really push back me thinking how could we balance… even though we express our grief of how to manage it seems senseless and words of void and feels so hopeless when no response for others, the so called dear ones.

17 comments:

Aarti said...

Hope he recovers soon.... its always painful watching people we love suffer... Prayers with you all

LadyFi said...

Wishing your dad much health!

monu said...

Jeevan, everything will be alright. You are such a sweet person, that God will not let you suffer, and you will find a way.

No need to worry about cataract, both my parents had cataract surgery and they are doing fine.My parents had their surgery done at Sankara Netralaya.
I think after a week after surgery, your father can do things at home. As far as I know, they must not expose their eyes to dust, sunlight and heat. So they have to very careful there. Talk to the doctor about the care after surgery and plan accordingly. Since your father has sugar, they will only do surgery if it is not high, I think. Ask him to be careful about what he eats. My Father in law is diabetic and he never ever touches sugar. I once bought him sweets made specially for diabetics, and he didn't even have that. So ensure that your father's diet is in control.

I will pray for you and your family and for everything to be alright. Don't worry. May God give your family strength.
:)

monu said...

just adding on, i don't think he can lift weight for a month, I am not so sure. Please check with the eye doctor and follow everything they say. After one month, they can get back to absolute normal schedule...

venus66 said...

He will get well soon. Don't worry my dear fren. God Bless.

geeth said...

Hope ur dad recovers soon.. And as Monu said, he cannot carry weights after the surgery.. for some time.
Take care..

My Only Photo said...

Jeevan wishing your dad speedy recovery. My prayers are with your family. And thank you again for visiting and reading my letter to Matthew. Comments such that put smile on my face always. Anna :)

Rahul Bhatia said...

Best wishes to him for a speedy recovery!

eden said...

Hope he will get better soon. And I hope someone out there has a kind heart to help with your mother taking care of you.

Eden said...

Hi, Jeevan!

It's me again. Thank you for your visit.

ashok said...

my wishes for his fast recovery...

TexWisGirl said...

i hope your dad's health can return. and i am sorry for the stress on your mother (and yourself).

Jeevan said...

Thanks so much for all your prayers and wishes… My dad back to normal now and I wish the phase of cataract surgery and the yet to come stress passes without giving much trouble. Thanks monu and geetha for your advice and suggestions to look after surgery and I hope he get right everything.

Kalyan said...

We all pray for the best of healthy for your dad and all your family friends...just don't feel bad, everything will be normal once again...we are all with you.

Ramya Ranganathan said...

hmm... there is no one called near and dear Jeevan.. Especially when we need them the most, we wont have them nearby.. Prayers to your family.. things will be fine soon!! Dont worry.. you 3 guys will definitely manage...

Rajesh said...

I understand you. As my father who is diabetic had cut and it it too long to heal.

Priya said...

Hope he recovers very soon !!