Friday, August 02, 2013

Turned 28

July 31st I turned 28! Yes, it was my birthday and I wasn't feeling at all and thought to think about that day.  Though it usually used to be another day in my life, rather sometime celebrate it plainly cutting off a cake once cousins gather at home. Nowadays I don’t find any reason to celebrate birthday rather it just mark my date of birth, this special day doesn't make anything special or become a turning point in my life, instead, keep in touch with others via birthday wishes. As you all know, for less than a month now after dad fell off his bike, life has been tough and troublesome (even it is a part of our everyday life) it turns worse in latter days. Like a lady worrier, mom battles everyday stretching her to the edge of exhaust to preserve our life not get worse.

Though it may bore hearing on it again and again but the toughness continues to battle on us and passing each day has been an experience of age. Mind continues to concern on things how to reduce or prevent even a particle adding to the turban of the lady worrier. J I couldn't come out thinking about my birthday and usually I don’t give much important to my birthday and don’t care people remind it or not (but I thank those remember this day to call me). I too know when my dear ones birthday falls, but I used to forget quite until someone reminds me on that day. I too wish for those well being always and I don’t mind forgetting to wish them on their birthday. Dad’s health is responding well after continues on medicine and injections, and once the wound is healed he will be ready for tie up on his ankle crack.

17 comments:

TexWisGirl said...

well, a very happy belated birthday to you, jeevan!

and very good to hear your father continues to heal.

Betsy Adams said...

Happy Birthday, Jeevan... My birthday is very soon, and since I'll be 71 ---I'll admit that I've been through ALOT more birthdays than you have... ha ha...

So sorry that your situation is not good now. I'm sorry for your Mom and Dad ---and hope that your Dad continues to improve so that he will soon be able to help your Mom.

Hugs for you...
Betsy

Indrani said...

Belated birthday greetings Jeevan!
Hope the turmoils at your end settle down fast.

Destination Infinity said...

Belated birthday wishes, Jeevan. I too don't like to celebrate my birthday, and I don't wish others on theirs too. Somehow, I don't think it's important. BTW, it is very much possible for you to help your family during difficult times - Be positive and cheerful. It will automatically spread to others and they will gain some mental strength through you.

Destination Infinity

Optimistic Existentialist said...

Happy Birthday my friend!! I do hope you had some cake :)

I hope your dad's ankle continues to respond well and that things get better Jeevan.

Jyoti Mishra said...

wish u belated happy bday..
sometimes we don't feel like celebrating at all but we do it for the people you love..

Good times are ahead :)
wish your father a quick recovery.

deeps said...

wow...
belated Bday greetings...
keep inspiring us, keep clicking away picts...

George said...

I'd like to wish you a belated Happy Birthday. I hope the year ahead is a good one for you and your family. I'm glad to hear that your Dad is responding well to the medicine, and I hope he has a speedy complete recovery.

Karen @ away for the weekend said...

Happy birthday, Jeevan! I never think much about my own birthday, but it is still nice when family and friends wish me a happy day. I hope your father continues to improve well!

Rajesh said...

Jeevan, belated birthday wishes.
Do not worry, thongs will improve for better.

Rakesh Vanamali said...

Belated birthday wishes, Jeevan. I hope this year brings you the very best.

Good to know that your father is doing better. Please wish him a speedy recovery.

geeth said...

Happy belated birthday Jeevan..
Glad to hear that your dad is recovering.. keep yourself and your mum strong.. he will get better soon..

Rahul Bhatia said...

Belated birthday greetings, Jeevan!

Lakshmi said...

Belated birthday wishes Jeevan..wish you and your family all the happiness

ladyfi said...

So sorry to hear about your father. Thank goodness your mum is a warrior!

Wishing you a wonderful birthday - hope you had some cake anyway.

Pattu Raj said...

First, a belated wish for your life and happiness. For a person so young, you have more wisdom, and getting more friends through your honest and heartfelt expressions in your posts.

Sorry about your Dad , hope he gets better soon. I understand how difficult it is, when a family member who is active gets housebound. The lady of the house needs to shoulder a lot of responsibilities which are overwhelming.

Praying that things will soon improve in your household.

Ramya Ranganathan said...

Belated b'day wishes Jeeven!! Have a blessed year ahead :)