There was a
mixed feeling being shifted to this house more than four months back. There
were many ups and downs related to family and home environment, but the part of
my life travels on similar path, more or less, nothing bothered me much and I
don’t feel much change in my life, apart some mishap with father (who’s just
back to normal after his bike fall) which led our life thought physically
trouble and emotional stress. For nearly two months, mom had been the only caretaker
of mine to take care of my needs indeed without the support of dad, which was
the troublesome phase ever in my life.
our small backyard |
Today
everything seem to be nothing and the difficult times are no more, because,
they are almost become a part of my practical life. Leaving those behind, life
has been wonderful with pros and cons and the weather on other hand had been
very pleasant these days unlike extremely hot when we shifted home back in
April and followed by sultry May. The rain that make way through last two months
had sent wakeup calls to mosquitoes (even though they aren’t new for us and
they are almost everywhere around Chennai) we are forced to close all the
windows and door before 6 pm to prevent them enough. Even we can’t sleep
without fans on; glad we have an inverter to keep us asleep when the power goes
off often when it rains.
The house is well lit throughout the day without
a need for lights (each room has two wide windows) only the wind couldn’t enter
much unless there’s heavy blow outside. We aren’t daring to keep all windows
open to make free entry for mosquitoes since we haven’t put nets for windows
like how we done at our early house. Though it isn’t a matter anyway, but
maintaining the house to keep clean wasn’t easy enough which was double the
size of our early one and with trees around we can’t stop leaves thrown
down. But what I liked more was the
small garden space of the backyard, which is enough to say than nothing, and
who won’t dream of a house with garden space. I liked it much and want to see
it bloom with flowers and grasses.
Before we come
to this home, my bro wanted to make lawns with the open spaces around but once
rain stared to pour the grasses began to grow on its own on the open space. I
know they aren't the grasses use for lawns, but a kind of wild weeds growing
fast to a foot now and looking for a cleanup. I suggest mom to direct a cow
(those pass our house everyday and some time lie close to our compound for the
shadow of the tree) to have the grasses as its breakfast, but she don’t like my
idea saying that it will also eat our others plants.
We had
re-planted some of our pot plants there and there’s already a yellow flowering
shrub and bougainvillea that need to grow enough to see blossom. There are
jasmines, hibiscuses, anthimanthaarai (4 O'clocks flower) and button roses
(check the collage above) growing close to ground. It’s so good to see them
blooming like white bulbs every morning and 4 O'clock flowers in cheerful
yellow, there’s also a white frangipani tree at our parking dropping fabulous
flowers. Just four months old, the neighbors were still strange enough except
for this only family that made touch with us, since facing our side front it
was easy making friendship with them.
It sounds as though your family is settling in and adjusting to your new home. I'm glad your father is better. The flowers in your garden are beautiful!
ReplyDeleteso glad to hear your father has recovered and hopefully your mother can recover a bit from double care. i am glad you are relaxing a bit in your new home. i hope you will indeed like living there.
ReplyDeleteGlad you made some friends with those neighbors. Good neighbors are important. And I think the cow would be a good idea to keep the weeds away haha. Mosquitoes are a pest aren't they? We went to Florida last month and they were everywhere!
ReplyDeleteYou should start growing vegetables and flowers! Look at George's lovely garden in Tennessee with all the fabulous blooming flowers in Betsy's post. They really looked like heavens!
ReplyDeleteAs they say time never waits for anyone, whether it's difficult or easy on us, it just passes by leaving memories behind us. I am glad to hear that everything is n their usual place now and your father is back to gardening. The flowers are really beautiful though I don't even know what half of them are called as. :)
ReplyDeleteThe flowers are beautiful - you should grow more flowering plants, fruit & vegetable plants as well :)
ReplyDeleteDestination Infinity
Hope all is well at your end now! Best of luck!
ReplyDeleteI was happy to hear that your Dad has recovered from his fall. It's a shame you have to keep the house closed up because of the mosquitoes, but hopefully mosquito season will soon be over. Your flowers are beautiful.
ReplyDeleteI am to know you people have been settled down finally in the new house and you also have garden in place.
ReplyDeleteHi Jeevan, I was thrilled to read that your Dad is better now. That is a blessing especially for your Mom and you. Moving is hard --and there are always good and bad things about moving. Sounds like you all are settling into your new home really well. I'm sure you will enjoy the garden outside.. Beautiful flowers.
ReplyDeleteHugs,
Betsy
lovely flowers Jeevan...wishes to your Dad ..
ReplyDeleteSo glad your family is settling down well. Great shots!
ReplyDeleteGood to know that your father is recovering and you are settling down well in the new house.
ReplyDeleteThe garden is beautiful and I am happy to know that you enjoy your garden space. I had one in my old house, as you know!
All the best, Jeevan!
Glad to hear you're all settled in. Those flowers are lovely.
ReplyDeleteThat is good news Jeevan, that you have a backyard. It looks sunny enough for many plants to thrive. By the way, I have three of those flower trees in my compound too..:-)
ReplyDeleteSweet suggestion this: "I suggest mom to direct a cow (those pass our house everyday and some time lie close to our compound for the shadow of the tree) to have the grasses as its breakfast."
ReplyDeleteBut it is understandably difficult to have such suggestions accepted my parents, Jeevan. ;)