Wednesday, October 04, 2006

My parent’s Sacrifice

As I was thinking about Gandhi Sacrifice to our Nation. I thought in today’s world, is their any one who wills sacrifices their life for others? See…. How stupid am I to think like this, having two persons in my house who sacrifice their life for me. Hum I am telling about my mom and dad. You can ask, why suddenly thought about your parents sacrifice now! They are sacrificing much in their life for me from when I born to till now. But in the recent days I realize their pain of handling me, esp. the last 2 months. By the unexpected accident to my dad in august makes the situation worst, as he needs more rest to get cure form the wound, mom is the only person who handling me alone. It was 2 months gone even though dad dint recover fully, after a month only doctors found a minor fracture in his knee and warned not to do heavy works and take rest as possible. Can anyone imagine, a 40+-aged women taking care of 21-year-old boy, helping for his daily activities and also doing the house works. She suffers form body and joint pain, because of handling me. As dad was like that, she can’t expect him to help her, so hiding her pain form us she take care every thing.

Some times she suffer more pain and it sent her to take rest, so on those times, I can’t disturb her, so I will be quite and make her comfort that I don’t need any help form her on the movement. Before dad was involve in accident, he used to handle half of my activities, but now all my works have done my mom. Any son will like to give his parents stretch and pain, except me, what to do, I have no way of living with out their hard work; when the children taking care of their parents wish, in my life parents taking care of my wishes. I realize some of my activities have face down in the recent days, last time I feel happy that I have walked little without caliper, now its was totally affected, if I try to put the feet the balance makes me to fall. The wheelchair gives hand to move without the caliper.

I don’t know how to express my worries to others; this blogging has come up with kind hearts to hear my worries. To me they are the really Gandhi’s, who can guess, when the will get freedom form me. They sacrifice their Strengths, energies, wishes, happiness ect… In this world parents only worry about there children’s, even one (relatives, well-wishers, friends….) have their own family, they have to work for them, we cant expect others to help every time, the one and only parents will help our full life. I can live with hopes till my parents support me, after them who will support and take care me, is a trillion????? I pray they should get more strengths and energy (soon a freedom form me).

27 comments:

Pavithra said...

Jeevan, don't lose heart !! Things would be fine soon. We all would pray for your father to get well soon and your parents to be immortal to take care of you !!

WA said...

Take care Jeevan. Hope these are passing clouds and hope things get better for you and your parents soon. What are the doctor's saying about your dad's knee? Will it heal by itself in time?

Anonymous said...

Being thankful to them with all ur heart will be the best feelin' that u can ever have! Yeah, parents are the only persons who will be on our side no matter what.
Hug ur Mom always.... say thanx! or even w/ no words, surely she knows how thankful you are for everything she do!

... ur soo kind yaar, dun worry God is always with you, trust HIM!! Do pray always!

Take care!

monu said...

Jeevan...
take care..
i will pray that your father gets well soon...and am sure he will get well real fast.

Am sure that things will get better for you..

:)

starry nights said...

Jeevan..first of all I think you are a good son to even think about the sacrifices your parents make for you. sometimes children forget this and always thing it is your parents responsibility. dont worry so much. your father will get better and somehow God gives strength to mothers to handle most situations. In the meantime you can help your mother with some chores so she will not get too tired.

Arjuna_Speaks said...

Jeevan - cheer up brother - I told u not to worry..mail me if u need any help ok? I am ready to do anything to u my brother..dont worry ok..

indianangel said...

Hey dont worry abt this too much son! remember u will never be a burden for your parents, so cheer up there are so many of us to share ur feelings so dont worry and take care!

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Keshi said...

I hope ur dad recovers soon mate.

U know wut..ur a brillaint son. Just be there for ur mum and dad like u always do.

Keshi.

Ghost Particle said...

dear brother, god is listening to your wishes, your prayers and your gratitude...your parents are your angels...and you are an inspiration to everyone. God Bless.

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Anonymous said...

Jeevan dont loose heart!! You are surely blessed with amazing parents. Times will change for the better. Its testing time. Dont worry. We will pray that to god to take care of the situation.

வேதா said...

though i would say do not worry i can really understand your feelings bro. u know jeev try to live for the moment do not trouble urself by thinking abt what will happen tomorrow. i jus remember the quote
"look to this day
for yesterday is but a dream
and tomorrow is only a vision
but today,well lived,
makes every yesterday a dream of happiness
and every tomorrow a vision of hope
look well therefore to this day"

நடப்பதெல்லாம் நன்மைக்கே

Prashant said...

Hey Jeevan...dont be upset....We all are here to pray for your dad so that he will recover soon.
And i do agree that nobody can do for you like your parents....

Just read these lines:
"Hope is a good thing, maybe the best of things, and no good thing ever dies."

So dear brother, dont worry. Our friend is there(GOD) , he is wtching all and he has got plans for all and we kan understand that he kant put same plan for all.
So just feel proud that there is someone who is watching you always like your parents and just wait for the climax of your plan made by him......

take care..........

visithra said...

Such a beautiful post - u are a wonderful son thats y u have such parents

worry not dear - like uma said these are passing clouds - no one knows what the future holds - but believe in urself n god n u will win this situation

Jeevan said...

Pavi – Thanks for your prayer pa. Think I am not wrong to share my worries with u all:)

Angel (WA) – Sure. Wish they should be only passing clouds. First when we take X-raw, they can’t find any crack, but after a month only they found a miner crack on the knee. They gave medicines and he is doing physiotherapy, doctors said it would take at least 2 weeks to set.

Kathy – Hope my mind is doing it rightly. I can only return by showing my love for what ever they do. I will pray for them every time; I care more on them than me.

Monu – Thank your so much dear, and for your prayer:)

Starry – Thanks for thinking me as a Good boy, hope I am not bad:) every one should think about our parents or others sacrifice, then only we can help others. Think unnecessary disturbance is also a help for her, we do friend.

Arjuna – Dear thank u again and again to being there for me always! Some times I can’t control my heart from getting worry. Will try. I am really sorry if I make u worry.

Indianangel – Thnaks you for being there to share:) no parent will take it as burden what ever their children do, but a child will not like their parents to carry heavy loads of them.

Jeevan said...

Velu – Will check and do it soon:)

Keshi – Thank you dear. Ok I understand what ur coming to tell. I will be there.

GP – god is listening or not, you all are listening, I think its equal to god’s listen!! God bless u too:)

KK – If our prayers have power sure our situation will change. Hope we will pass in his test.

Veda – The quote was inspiring friend. I get solace at least I have experienced a normal life till some time. Thankspa.

Prashant – I am very happy that u all prays for us. Proud to hear the praise from u about my parents!! Some used to tell that god will test whom he loves, much. Thanks a lot bro for your kind words.

Visith – My worries looks like beautiful for u! Dear am not taking it as a wrong way, I think we live a beautiful life that why our worries also looks beautiful for you;)) Thank you visith:)

Nirek said...

jeevan..thats touching narration! thanks for making me think back about my parents love for me!

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Sandai-Kozhi said...

Jeevan,They say that God always give special kids to the parents who has that kind of enormous love to show.You are blessed to have such a woderful parents and you too are a very nice person.I read sometime back(don't remember Kumudam/vikatan)about a lady who is losing her senses one by one but still having hope and helping others in whatever the way she could,living her life courageously.
So with the modern tech, something will come to ease your walk,so don't just give up.Be cheerful.God is there.Have faith.--SKM

Syam said...

don't worry Jeevan, your dad will over come this soon...

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Jeevan said...

Satu – I checked your recent post about dad and mom, very nice:)

Sandai-kozhi – Thanks for your encouraging words dear:)

Syam – Thanks Friend:)

Gaurav Jain said...

That's a very touching topic Jeevan, and I believe it's true for all parents. I wish your dad gets well soon, do send my regards to him.

-Gaurav

mysorean said...

Great thoughts Jeevan! I don't think anyone would have thought in this direction! Kudos to you!

Our parents are the "Gandhi" for us. So very true. You made me realise something in life today. Thanks friend. Thanks a lot! :)

Everything will be alright. May God Be with You!

Jeevan said...

Gaurav – Thanks u dear:)

Adi – Thanks Friend:)

smiley said...

very very true. not many of us realise the sacrifices done by our parents...