Immature through law

What I see in the law commission report is that age is nothing to do with marriage. I doubt that one is fully matured at the age of 18 and available for physical relationship that decides there future? No way. The one is matured through fully availability of mind, knowledge and body; just not in the age alone... More the report told is: “reducing the age limit of men getting married from 21 to 18 could stop the child marriage and the research report tells there is no medical research have said that a man marries at age of 18 faces debility. They put questions that if men were determine to poll vote at 18, why not to marry?... and no scientific evident for fixing that man should marry at only 21." It was unreasoning if a law bringing into force with these recommendations thinking it could bring a change and stop child marriage. (Global record of age to marry according to countries).

Further, the report says "the age for sexual consent should be raised from 15 to 16 for all girls, regardless of marriage." At present one having sex with a girl under 15 is punished as criminal act, even if they married, but how much such cases have been registered so far is invalid. Many people hesitate to come forward to complain and the unawares mostly in fair away distance from cities still follows it as custom and the law noting to do with. There are many villages, even town and cities not following the rules of child girl marriage; as soon they attend the womanhood, parents brought into thoughts of putting there daughters into marriage life.

I know none can ban the love or put it under law, it’s the nature feel comes at any age... love comes under wish and affection and it relates dump to fit mentally and physically. Hearing to my ears and come to know many girl children are prepared and filled with marriage and children before crossing 18. Now if the government take the report serious and fix the age of man getting marriage at 18, what the age of women? Many mind of men out in the world look for a lesser age women as their partner, if so one marries at 18, he would mostly look for a girl below 18 and it can go least below 15. I think the report more is not like to stopping the child marriage and in a way it encourages.

If one he/she was left into physical relationship without a developed mind and unaware of the relation, sure it going to disturb the next generation, I mean the children born to them. How would be the behavior and activities of a child, that born to and brought up by another child? I see children with very young mother who’s paired with a decade old husband. Here itself we could find distinguish between the father, whose views would be different and mother who lack for information looking after a child. A parents experience exposes on there own kids, if not at age, by mind they should be capable of bringing a better generation.

Intend to see

A ran hard worked heart taking rest
before freezing; it takes rest as wearing
simplicity…. antiquity hiding the eyes
where compassion gone, banding its eyes.

Understand relations stand in distance watching
some mysterious hearts lives in some intend
when a distress visits, worries comes admit
uninterested relation this or that it seeks.

Unable to hide the truth
it came here and fell
to wake up and answer
though the world hesitates.

Eyes stain in imagination
what happened is true,
to remember wetness in heart
I glance to forget but my intend not conceal


The original in Tamil:

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Pachyderms laid rest

They are the huge lives on the earth, which troubled the kovai villages sometimes back and was chased into forest by officials, where they visits often the villages would never going to come again in headlines. They went climbing upon the broad-gauge in Coimbatore when the rail hit them. It sadden everyone who come across the news and pictures of this bloody incident. It’s the very worst happening in recent times; even though it gives lots of trouble to people we have a soft cornet on pachyderm. Due to many reasons we lose elephants; earlier such incident happens in Assam’s elephant-bathing zone killing two elephants including a calf. Now what we want to look is a solution or a plan to find out the animal’s passage to avoid future incidents hitting by train.

The distress exists out today in tears because of this incident: Three elephants, including a pregnant mammal, were hit and killed by a speeding passenger train passing through Pakkalad railway track in Coimbatore. As the train hits, the pregnant one bearing an 18-month-old fetus crushed in the middle of the moving train, where the calf splits off under the impact, throwing the fetus on the side of the tracks. The two male elephants helping the pregnant one to cross the track were died as soon the train hits.

A merry disclosing meet

The pleasant noon ends with sweet memories, under the trees, surrounds with birds’ sonant, along with wagons moving. All year’s birds come across the winter and springs to keep enjoying the season and for our views in the bird sanctuaries, like it was a lady bird is visiting chennai from the island continent. It was not quite surprise, because it was a planned trip and meeting, but it surprises and enthusiastic to meet my dearest friend with two more buddies. Its goes to Viji to make communicate us and prepare for the meeting that could be feasible for all of us and especially kindly for me to move freely in wheels. Once they called for a meeting, I dint think about any thing and only the meet gets to mind, after ending the call I feel where my dad could be able to take me to the meeting point, because he has office on Friday. Keeping in mind where he said I will take you if you want to visit them, so when I replaying his words, he can’t deny and said to return half-day from office to see my friends. Later becoming into fresh, waited for dad to arrive soon and a call from friend to get ready, time comes to move in the noon traffic journey that was better for us and stable for them that ends in few minutes to get us together.

In empty mind, no clue with only her sweet voice and knowing viji’s visage, exceptionally an angel standing at my side, I don’t want to wonder as I already know there would be amiable behind the kind and sweetest girl. There we all got on a walk from our cars towards the A/C restaurant room and again returning to our parking place to make our dinner in the opened and freely space under the trees, where the rooms are filled. She was double in returning of love, kind, affection towards all of us and I feel what it was the nature brought us here showing care, love on each of us. Her sister who comes to meet was oppose to her excitement; she was quite quiet watching all of us. The both buddies Viji and Senthil are very nice and carrying persons for friendship and I really liked there friendship, and they are enjoying teasing each others. It was a pleasure joining in there fun chat and in photographing. The first thing will always remain forever; like that our first meet would always memorable. We were at drive-in for more than an hour, spending times on eating dosai in creating a circle of conversing and finishing the dishes. Who would really want to end some of us lives for our moment, sharing in there shot times journey? If there was a positive situation around sometime, it would be great for a fun period to return again. Thanks for the buddies for this get together and the warm hugs you brought for me.

The only worries me is, I couldn’t bring any greeting for her when she was presenting me with gifts, chocolates... and when they are taking picture I was lack to snap without a camera. But I would get the pics from them later, and narrating everything just leaving blank without her name is like shutting up everything. She is non than our Thooya, a bravo write and struggle fighter from Sydney.

Feel beautiful song

These are the lines from my most favorite song Unnarugil Varugayil… from Tamil film Kalloori. The song’s picturesque and beautiful lyrics impressed me a lot to share with you all. I was to be filled with imagination each times and feel the beauty in this song. It’s the current congenial song of my blog; check the video song at the left turn sidebar. Here it goes the translate, enjoy:

Coming near to you, a rapture inside me
because of you mate, I was not myself
listening to your name, enthusiasm sprouts
seeking for you shadow, my shadows continues here
when have I changed, I exceed myself
asking my heart to tell me a answer

Even placing a lock on your eyes to arrest
it leaps out of your heart girl….
even telling no to your path you where traveling
your legs comes as it can’t be stopped

My body, my mind, intestines everything
would newly mutate this day,
every words speaking by friends
would eject without entering the ears,
where is it suffering from affection?
or the desires coming on you?
up to this collected joy and with distress
I was agitating to share with you,
what’s this newly faint
with night and daytime sun shines

Everyday on dreams the blooming flowers
could it be picked through hands?
The hesitated words to be talked before
would it be understand if it said?
God's place and the secret of love
would it be able to realize the both?
Place, things, order and hearts secure
could it be able to exceed to-day?

In your eyes watching direction
will be roaming without reason,
yours views to fall on me
unknown I would be waiting,
like the unsaid secret
you where distressing my heart,
without telling even if I hide
my eyes lets will identified me