I don’t mind if
you read or not this post, but I just want to share (record) something about
sex here. No, I hadn't had sex ever before and I have no idea of having it
further in future but I do want to confess I too have sex feelings and
perspective on sex in general. Sex is always showcased as bad reputation in
society, forgetting that without sex we are no more here. Medication and
technology perhaps make different in case of lack of ability or infertility.
But sex is an inherent part of every life on earth and every species have sex
to reproduce their generation.
Sex is also sharing of cells and building a
human is an immense pleasure, as well pressure reproducing a child in progress
of death or life struggle. There’s a great setback thought about sex in general
and it is always seen as a taboo in society where there are none to reveal the
secret of sex unless one grown on his own to understand the progress. But I don’t
think it is an easy thing in the world and it remains as immense trouble esp. during
the age of teen, when no one was suppose to guide on changes happening physical
as well physiological. In the internet era, expose to sex is not a difficult
thing whether we went on searching or rather it come and sit on the screen,
produces a fake image and almost confuses with illusive fact and figures.
My first time encounter with sex
site amazes me with shocking images and coming out of teen and lack of internet
knowledge, I had trouble then how to keep away those things out of sight. Perhaps
what others might think of me when come to notice these things haunted me
intensely. I guess many internet users have gone thought such mindset esp. the
initial stage internet users or teens. Of course it’s not easy to restrain the thought of sex once expose
to sexual content on internet and the images watched use to keep haunting, but
things where quite different now with somehow understand of sex… the net porn
never seem to entice me unlike before.
But latterly I found interest on
erotica, unlike porn which always end up messing with dirty images; erotica exhibits
sex in an elegant way and make it feel graceful lead to ecstasy. I feel quite
fascinating reading thought erotic stories and poem, but I never taken it into
serious thoughts or impose in real life. I just look into the matter with
conscious effect and fun attitude, but never disturbing others.
I personally feel sex isn't a
matter of debate to be good or bad, right or wrong but consider by fact and
knowledge we need to look whereas it is suitable or not. Sex is always depends
on mind, situation, health and age as per law; love plays an inherent role in bringing
lot of energy and enthusiasms to lead a peaceful relationship. When sex comes
out of reliable love isn't trustworthy as hygiene is very important for safe
sex, as well being conscious towards health is vital. Apart love, sex is seen plainly
a physical touch, which I totally disbelief because without a intend thought and
desire sex doesn't exist.
7 comments:
Wonderful note and each one of us have passed through this phase.
it can be difficult to find a balance - especially in teenage years - when some religions try to shame you for even thinking about sex and making it taboo, yet it is a part of natural life. even as adults, we find it difficult to determine what is acceptable in marketing campaigns and the like.
I too feel that there's a big different between porn and erotica. Erotica can be quite artistic and expressive and beautiful in many ways.
Actually sex is matter of confusion, secrecy and lots of unyielding excitement for teens making it a matter of danger..this is what has made a bad repo of it in the society.
As teens, we don't have the maturity to handle sex. Remember Sexually Transmitted Diseases?? That's why it is kept away from us.
Its my personal opinion that sex is addictive like alcohol. If people don't have self-control, it is easy to become sex-a-holic, like alcoholic. These people will suffer later on.
Destination Infinity
Nice thoughts, only an honest and a pure mind can have such kind of ideas. There is nothing to hide here, its just that our society somehow had made it a kind of a taboo topic to be discussed in the open to create a kind of false insecurity.
Interesting read... when I was growing up we used to get excited just watching exercise programs on TV! Sounds so stupid now. But that was before the days of Internet... now every kid knows and has seen everything before they even hit 13. What a crazy world.
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