Sailing friend-ship

Nothing stops from sharing the moments again lease within a week of meeting friends at drive-in. This weekend was very exciting with friends visiting home for lunch and this time with thooya’s dad and our dear buddy Satheesh (Nirek) to join. It was more fun to fill the moment having all together at my home; I don’t thinking this time will come nearly, but came to make delight. What I was supposed to tell really is what day we met was lost from my memories; I could only thought about our times we bear together. So far it was time disables, I think of learning and understanding buddies, they are fair on there own characters of soft smiles, fun loving, quite listening and well-meaning...

I was in interest meeting satheesh who was to be a very familiar person those I come across, he is journey loving dear who caress ones shares his stretch. Thooya have a great father who could understand his draught’s wish and I was glad for the time he took to visit our home and thanks for senthil and viji to give there enough time for us. I was not to make anybody yearning, but the true is I was left like a child whose balloon was snatch suddenly when it happily playing. Because the bliss playing with me, for the interest of them to spend their wonderful times. It was too late noon when having lunch, but it was happy only, where waiting is welfare to this dream come true for us. I was not to admit of meeting thooya and satheesh at same moment, it was the rare occasion of this journey in life. How well the understanding between us, prefers bringing every corner linking with walls of friendship. The sea never ends, lets everyone have a ship to travel on it with friends, naming friendship.

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I was watching a wonderful film this weekend, the movies that I expects from the day it announced, but the video which I seen was a very low quality DVD with many cuts between scenes. Pallikoodam, it touches the sense of people who enjoys there memories of schooling life. The film is about the old students come together to save their school which was to be destroyed soon. The movie is based on a novel Kalavadiya Pozuthugal, written my director Thangar Pachan who also well acted as an old student of this school. I highly recommend this film to any one who likes to watch a good film that caresses our sweet hearts.

Don’t let down Sania

Although controversies, injuries and court cases couldn’t stop Sania Mirza becoming Asia’s No. 1 women tennis player. She bounced back to the 29th spot after her third-round appearance in the Australian Open, overtaking China’s Na Li and losing to Wimbledon champion Venus Williams.

But Sania’s decision to stay away from the coming WTA Bangalore Open and upcoming games worrying the future of Tennis in India. She may stop playing to avoid the controversy that follows her every match in India, but this decision by Sania to stop from playing in India could well spark with another debate or to link with the recently court order of a probe into the allegation that she showed disrespect to the national flag. To stop every rumor, its better she continue playing just leaving the controversies at side and aim on moving front. It was great time for tennis with her Asia’s No.1 position and it was the encouragement of us, that could make her do more. Well do great Sania!

Immature through law

What I see in the law commission report is that age is nothing to do with marriage. I doubt that one is fully matured at the age of 18 and available for physical relationship that decides there future? No way. The one is matured through fully availability of mind, knowledge and body; just not in the age alone... More the report told is: “reducing the age limit of men getting married from 21 to 18 could stop the child marriage and the research report tells there is no medical research have said that a man marries at age of 18 faces debility. They put questions that if men were determine to poll vote at 18, why not to marry?... and no scientific evident for fixing that man should marry at only 21." It was unreasoning if a law bringing into force with these recommendations thinking it could bring a change and stop child marriage. (Global record of age to marry according to countries).

Further, the report says "the age for sexual consent should be raised from 15 to 16 for all girls, regardless of marriage." At present one having sex with a girl under 15 is punished as criminal act, even if they married, but how much such cases have been registered so far is invalid. Many people hesitate to come forward to complain and the unawares mostly in fair away distance from cities still follows it as custom and the law noting to do with. There are many villages, even town and cities not following the rules of child girl marriage; as soon they attend the womanhood, parents brought into thoughts of putting there daughters into marriage life.

I know none can ban the love or put it under law, it’s the nature feel comes at any age... love comes under wish and affection and it relates dump to fit mentally and physically. Hearing to my ears and come to know many girl children are prepared and filled with marriage and children before crossing 18. Now if the government take the report serious and fix the age of man getting marriage at 18, what the age of women? Many mind of men out in the world look for a lesser age women as their partner, if so one marries at 18, he would mostly look for a girl below 18 and it can go least below 15. I think the report more is not like to stopping the child marriage and in a way it encourages.

If one he/she was left into physical relationship without a developed mind and unaware of the relation, sure it going to disturb the next generation, I mean the children born to them. How would be the behavior and activities of a child, that born to and brought up by another child? I see children with very young mother who’s paired with a decade old husband. Here itself we could find distinguish between the father, whose views would be different and mother who lack for information looking after a child. A parents experience exposes on there own kids, if not at age, by mind they should be capable of bringing a better generation.

Intend to see

A ran hard worked heart taking rest
before freezing; it takes rest as wearing
simplicity…. antiquity hiding the eyes
where compassion gone, banding its eyes.

Understand relations stand in distance watching
some mysterious hearts lives in some intend
when a distress visits, worries comes admit
uninterested relation this or that it seeks.

Unable to hide the truth
it came here and fell
to wake up and answer
though the world hesitates.

Eyes stain in imagination
what happened is true,
to remember wetness in heart
I glance to forget but my intend not conceal


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Pachyderms laid rest

They are the huge lives on the earth, which troubled the kovai villages sometimes back and was chased into forest by officials, where they visits often the villages would never going to come again in headlines. They went climbing upon the broad-gauge in Coimbatore when the rail hit them. It sadden everyone who come across the news and pictures of this bloody incident. It’s the very worst happening in recent times; even though it gives lots of trouble to people we have a soft cornet on pachyderm. Due to many reasons we lose elephants; earlier such incident happens in Assam’s elephant-bathing zone killing two elephants including a calf. Now what we want to look is a solution or a plan to find out the animal’s passage to avoid future incidents hitting by train.

The distress exists out today in tears because of this incident: Three elephants, including a pregnant mammal, were hit and killed by a speeding passenger train passing through Pakkalad railway track in Coimbatore. As the train hits, the pregnant one bearing an 18-month-old fetus crushed in the middle of the moving train, where the calf splits off under the impact, throwing the fetus on the side of the tracks. The two male elephants helping the pregnant one to cross the track were died as soon the train hits.