After 10 days of hospitalized mygrandpa (maternal) returned to
our home rather going to his. He was going through age related problems
and also a patient of Parkinson found very difficult in walking and standing
lately and with sore knee and foot on day other he was forced to move to the
hospital when his condition becomes worse. He was staying (along with grandma
and uncle’s family) in the 1st floor of their home and shifting to the
hospital was very difficult and only with the help of ambulance we were able to
do the transfer when he refused to stand.
Grandma and grandpa going through
newspapers during a vacation in Valparai
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He had a higher blood sugar (levelled
nearly 450) when tested at the hospital which seems to be the main cause of
unhealed wound and increased knee pain that put him immobile. Once at hospital
with medication and a small surgery on the sore heel makes his condition much
better and he also shows good improvement on his mobility by doing
physiotherapy. Although he regains certain actions and good at pace, he
couldn’t obtain the ability to climb steps which prevented him from going back to his
home in 1st floor.
It’s been a long time dream for
me staying with my grandparents; we are so glad about their move since we are staying
at a ground floor house, accommodating my grandfather is quite easy. But the only
thing that bothers us was his health condition; although we feel happy for
sharing/staying with them I wished he was good enough to celebrate the moments we
were longing for. My grandparents usually refuse to stay with us – perhaps
because not to give we trouble anyways – except the moment while travelling or
going on vacations.
Our grandparents have done a lot
for us and for the comfort of living their sacrifices were immense. I think it’s
our right/duty to take care of them when they can’t do things on their own. I
know it is a temporary stay for them until their new home (which is under
construction right now next to their current house) in ground floor is ready in
2-3 months. But I cherish the moment being with them and sharing things
together. After we lost our great grandmother (paternal) 7 years back, they are
the only elderly people in our family (who love us unconditionally) whom we really
need to protect.