A very difficult phase is waiting for us ahead. Before I say why, I need to tell my life isn’t myself but made of
two more lives and do you want me to say what the other two was? Of course, who
could be other than my mom and dad? We three were a ring of cycle and any
damage or cause happens at any part of the circle will affect the rotate of the
cycle. From the beginning, they were the two pillars supporting my entire life,
though every parent support their children but the things carried out to be haven’t
been same and my life is totally depend on them although they gave me complete
freedom of thought and decision making of my own which has never been apart
them. There have been many occasions where one has to take care of me in
absence of another and they have managed it well all these years despite the
difficulties but the upcoming days can’t be same as mom is waiting for a
surgery tomorrow.
She has been suffering from prolapsed
uterus for last few years and doctor has suggested her to go for operation to
remove the uterus before it become complicate but she continued to postpone all
these days only because of me – thinking who could lift me or help dad if she
got operation. Because she was advised not (at all) to lift anything heavy post
operation and complete rest for 45 days. Though the 45 days rest couldn’t be
that matter since dad could manage (taking care of me) with the help of my
brother and uncle, and the aunt and grandma could help making dishes. But quite
no to lifting (for mom) will sure make a broken hand for dad and we can’t
expect others to be there all the time and dad too has works to do and leaving
alone mom could be very difficult. Though she could help me all other ways
rather than lifting, will add load on dad and there will be the need
of Hoist lot.
Lately she was feeling very
difficult and pain in abdomen and it forced her to look out for a relief and
remedy where there is the only option, an operation to acquire relief. She had
never undergone a surgery in her life and being the first one, anxiety is not
an easy thing to come out though she looks stronger and confidence and wanting
for a relief is what I could see in her. She will be admitted to the hospital
in evening for further check-ups before going into the operation tomorrow.
Initially we prefer for a laparoscopic surgery but due to prolapse doctor
decided to go for the surgical operation and she would be in hospital for next 3
days. I wish she got the best treatment and nothing goes out of planning (because
we lost our great grandma a decade back due to a surgical mistake for the same
cause) and this should be the first and last operation in her life. I have seen
her suffering all these days and when she lifts me she would feel pain at
abdomen later but despite these she continued to support me and I wish, and
hope you too wish her the best, great sigh of relief.
