Brother’s wedding arrangements were going in full swing, and with only two days left for the occasion – of Nov 25th evening reception and Nov 26th morning marriage – the invitation process came to an end with Panthakaal on Sunday. Panthakaal is a pre-wedding ritual, where a wooden pole is planted in front of the house (a few days ahead of the wedding) after prayer for a trouble-free wedding ceremony. In the bygone era, word of mouth was the only source of communication; so pole planting ensures the passers-by get to know about the wedding and also the good news is passed to others.
Now, following the
Panthakaal, Nalanggu is performed on him for the remaining days to the wedding.
Nalanggu is an activity of applying turmeric paste on the cheeks, hands, and
feet of the bride and groom by the married women, and as a blessing, saffron is
applied to their forehead. Mostly
it’s a 3-day ritual, and we are having guests visiting us every day to perform
the rite, and my brother is at hold at home from Sunday. Other than relatives, we invite friends and
neighbors to visit us to perform the ritual, and for me, I get something
special to eat at home in the evenings and at night as we have guests.
Everything goes well until now, and our house got a cheerful look like
the wedding lights that set home in the festival glow. But not to forget, the
Nivar cyclone is nearing us and threatening to mess the celebration mood as it
is predicted to strike exactly on the dates of the wedding. We
have no option other than facing anything that comes our way, but we hope the
cyclone passes off quickly before the event began.
The last few weeks were
kind of huff and puff for the parents, and presenting the invitation has kept
them away from the afternoon naps and our bedtime to past 11 pm. My uncle's
family next door has taken care of me while my parents were away on an inviting
spree, we still can’t reach out to many of them as we got a very short time, and
the pandemic is another troublesome kicking ass as well. Conducting a marriage
in a situation of social distancing and mask-wearing is a different experience
we’re looking forward to, and hope things work well for us safely and securely.
10 comments:
...I hope that you all have a fun and safe time.
Yes seeing this picture itself gave me a good feeling . Best wishes and let everything go well . Have a good time
Hope you all have a wonderful wedding despite the mask wearing and social distancing.
I hope the typhoon stays away from the wedding. I can only imagine how difficult it has been to plan the wedding amid all the restrictions that are in place. I hope the cermonies go well.
Do hope all goes well for the wedding ~ So many adjustments for the world ~ Best Wishes to all.
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Hope you all have a safe and wonderful wedding. Best wishes to your brother and his future wife.
Best wishes in advance
So much to do and during a pandemic too. I hope your brother's wedding goes really smoothly and everyone enjoys a wonderful time with family with good bonding
This is interesting to read about the traditional wedding in your country. Hope everything goes well and everyone will be happy. Congratulations to your brother and his new bride.
Since I read the most recent post first, I know the wedding was a success.
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