Monday, July 09, 2018
Sunday, July 08, 2018
Strawflowers
Suns scattered on ground
though they don’t glow like real
they
own their sunshine.
Yellow strawflowers
in the universe of green
outshines like a sun.
P.s: Haiku inspired by yellow paper daisies captured from one of the wildest place in Theni.
Commonly known as the
golden everlasting or strawflower, is a flowering plant native to
Australia and it grows as a woody or
herbaceous perennial or annual shrub up to a metre tall with green or
grey leafy foliage. Golden yellow or white flower heads are produced from spring
to autumn; their distinctive feature is the papery bracts that resemble petals.
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Friday, July 06, 2018
Flying Object
During my
travel to Kodaikanal in March, I encountered this cloud formation and along
with the sparking sunrays create an image of flying object or alien ship trying
to land on the earth! The picture was captured around Dindigul, while traveling on NH45
and this was a scene following a series of hide and seeks between the sun and
clouds, which was fun to watch and shoot the dazzling show of flashing sunbeams
and grey clouds coming up in different shapes. It was also wonderful to see the
cloud line or silver lining appearing above the clouds was magical but overall
the alien disc was impossible to miss.
Linking this post with Skywatch Friday
Tuesday, July 03, 2018
Some of the multiple waterfalls enroute to Munnar
Munnar bestow me with lot of pleasure as I explored its beauty in November and as you know
except the blue sky I shared in a previous post, the weather has been quite
cloudy and drizzling to rain entire the trip. Though I missed many views across
the mountains and valleys to wrap in mist, the multiple waterfalls and brooks get
me throughout a wonderful mood and upraise at every rise of natural spring.
Following Thoovanam, and Karimutty Waterfalls I enjoyed some little waterfalls
and water flowing from a raised mountain rock/cliff, to lookalike a waterfall
from great height, and that all falling within short distances make feel quirk at
each fall.
Within 2 minute
drive from Karimutty we stopped on a small bridge by sighting of a creek,
pretty cascading from a decent high to underpass the bridge to merge with
Pambar River beneath the valley. It looks like a branch of the brook that makes
part with Karimutty waterfalls, from the original source of water (which
believed to have medicinal value) above the mountains (click here to see from where
it flows). I also liked more the trees making a solid stand between the rocks
and the entire scene gives a jungle feel although it’s not far from Chinnar
Wildlife Sanctuary.
In the
picture above (1st one) you could see the back road or the one we took from Chinnar and the
brook runs below to valley and Karimitty waterfall is on the left side of the
image. Few km from there is Marayoor, the only town between Udumalpet and
Munnar, and just passed the town of many restaurants and cottages, we stopped
at the sight of another mini falls silently making its way through vegetation
and banana plants, which seems to belong to the house beside the
waterfall. I just enjoyed the lush green
of the area with mist wrapping above the mountains… a couple of bends and curve
from there brought the breathtaking sight of all.
It was
refreshing to see water flowing from that high cliff of mountain and being
black rock mound the water falls like overflowing of milk. Thanks to the mist
and clouds to trigger showering above the mountains to create this natural
waterfall to be visible from a distance, though it was far above to reach I
zoomed on to get the views (below) from the stopped car. Glad there was no
vehicle in front or behind to force us to move, and I could feel the coolness
even through the sight. This road takes us through number of natural wonders and
it’s all because of the weather condition of mist and rain aid us to enjoy this
special occasion/vacation.
And ten minute drive
from there and about msl 1200, and somehow above the mountains, crawling through
the mist and pristine scene of nature it was wonderful to see another shades of
silver (waterfall) leak through the thick forest vegetation
and tea plantation. It was from there things went hide from our views as we travelled
through thick fog, my eyes couldn’t miss few more little waterfalls took stream
from the mix of mist and rain. But it is for another day.
Sunday, July 01, 2018
Friday, June 29, 2018
Friday Review: Tik Tik Tik
From the time I
heard about this film and its concept (of space travel) I decided not to give a
miss, watching it from theatre – and like I told earlier I went for a night
show at drive-in, skipping the evening, for the Tamil film Tik Tik Tik .
Shakthi Soundar Rajan always comes with different concept and deals with
technical aspects neatly and I’m following his movies from Naanayam, even
though he has directed only four films Tik… is top-notching.
The film
revolves around an asteroid, in the size of Chennai, which is to hit the east
coast of India in a week time to create havoc and the Indian space team tries
to destroy the asteroid before it enters the earth surface! A team of
astronauts head by Vasu (a trained magician and escape artist) goes to a space
station to steal a missile, hold by an opponent country, to break apart the
asteroid to preserve our country. Did their mission accomplished or not remains
the subject which put us upright and holds interest to watch.
Hollywood has
manipulated a lot on this concept (of space travel) but first time a movie made
in India, using our simple technologies and VFX, want me to consider special
and it lived up to our expectation. The director has simplified the subject and
technical aspects to everyone’s understanding and the film crew had given their
best to accomplish the mission. There are many places where logic dies but the
illusion helped built up an image or mirage to watch with amuse. BGM was
excellent!
The first
impressive was the sound effect, where an asteroid hit the earth with force and
make a large hole. I could say D.Imman had given his best and every time the
BGM hit “tik tik tik” takes the entire attention and congrats D.Imman to
accomplish a century, where Tik… was his 100th composed album. Jayam
Ravi in role of Vasu had showed boldness and unpredicted on face keeps intense.
(I appreciate Ravi for taking such innovative projects following Peranmai.) Ramesh
Thilak and Arjunan made fun and Nivetha is additional attraction to the exact
replicative high-tech spaceship and space station.
The editing was
magic and one could feel it if you watch filming clips under credit.
Cinematographic is quite refreshing and the VFX scenes are pretty clear and
feels real! The movie is a great
experiment that deserves attention and keeping away the logic (which I think is
not necessary in a Sci-Fi) it’s a sheer entertainment, taking Tamil cinema to a
different level and I really wanted to watch this movie in theatre to support
their effort and to encourage such experiment in movies. Tik Tik Tik! A must
watch in theatre for the terrific effects.
Friday, June 22, 2018
Skywatch Friday
Before checking
the Tea Museum in Munnar, I captured this lovely shot on the pretty sky raised
above the mountains of tea. Interestingly this’s the only part of the blue sky
I watched during the entire trip of Munnar in Nov 2017! I ever experienced a
travel like that where the whole trip went under gloomy, cloudy and rainy
atmosphere and treated with multiple waterfalls decorating the mountains like festoons.
I really forget
that I have completed 13 years in blogging on June 20th. I’m certain it’s only
because of you, friends, support that I continue to blog and your comments were
my booster to kept spring here. Thank you all. Blogging is a celebration every
day and in the long run that particular day doesn’t mattered anymore and
blogging isn’t the same as well when I begin and the experience of blogging
taught me a lot to apply in my life and track
changer as well. It’s all because of you and you created a path for me to
walk through.
Linking this post with Skywatch Friday
Wednesday, June 20, 2018
Monday, June 18, 2018
Evening shows and Kaala
Hereafter, I
decided not to go for the evening shows at drive-in theatre as they begin to
play movies at 6.45pm itself, it takes at least half an hour to get clear
picture on the screen or to say until the sky turns darker. Except winter, all other
season has day light up to 7pm and it’s really difficult to get involved
watching. The only theatre I could visit here was the Prarthana beach Drive-in Theatre
where I could watch movies sitting from
the car rather shifted to a seat like regular theatres, and I don’t think
Chennai theatres are wheelchair friendly or allow to watch movies from wheelchair.
Apart this we could avoid traffic if we go for the night show at 10pm, and it
takes only 15-20 minutes to reach and return home.
Last week I went
to watch Tamil superstar’s Kaala and it is a movie based on the popular
residential area of Mumbai, Dharavi (one of the largest slum in the world),
where the superstar protect the people from a political head who tries to evict
them to execute his construction plan. The movie was easily predictable, and
the director has made it simple so there wasn’t an excitement of watching a
Rajini movie. I too went without an expectation perhaps because Rajini has done
many don movies and this is another shade in black. Actually at many places it
feels and reminds the pro-jallikattu and the tunes celebrating Kaala also reflects
the loudness of people gathered at Marina and black being the protesting logo influenced
lot.
I thought it was
only me, reminded the popular Vivek comedy where he played a fake don in Tamil
film Padikkadavan but now I could see many connected this way while watching
the movie. For people who went looking for some action from Rajini could have
disappointed but ok with bit of styles. At a scene where he says, you may have
come without asking me, but to go you have to… I wish Director Ranjith could have
made clear notes at some places and also the sub for Hindi dialogues are
unclear and noisy when languages blend. All characters did their part well and
Easwari Rai had made a nice resurface after long time in Tamil and her slang is
typical. Nana Patekar role could have been stronger and the movie is an eyewash
overall in black. Could watch ones and you won’t miss anything if not.
Thursday, June 14, 2018
8 Lane Expressways! Environment Destruction
Tamil Nadu Chief Minister has taken oath in assembly to lay green road to Salem from Chennai, an 8 lane
expressway through Tiruvannamalai-Harur. I really think is there a real need to
execute this 8 lane project on the already 2 lane state highway? Anyone who has
travelled this road would know how beautiful and scenic the entire stretch was
with farmlands, reserve forests and mountainous landscape with number of trees
lining up the road makes it a pleasant driving. I have travelled on this road
to (to and fro) Yercaud and I enjoyed it both the ways to become my favourite.
I really disturbed hearing this project and thought its quite waste of money
and destruction of nature and environment… there’s already couple of national
highway connecting Salem with Chennai and they were also 4 lane but this 8 lane
roadway is unnecessary and that too the selection of this route is wrong. There
aren’t many significant industries on this section and the need for
transportation is also less and most part of this stretch is dedicated to
farming and has certain amount of Eastern Ghats and five reserve forests on its
way which is in need of production.
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| The pictures posted here were shot during my travel on the beautiful state highway , what the government decided to make 8 lane expressway by chop off the trees and farmlands |
The prime road to Salem from
Chennai through Kallakurichi isn’t much busy and only 40% of vehicles use this
road and that road too needs improvement as it wasn’t good in shape and smooth at
some places and turns from 4 to 2 lanes at the bypasses. To make people
irritate there are toll gates for even short distances. First these things have
to rectify before they go creating a new section of road where there isn’t need
for such fast pace 8 lane expressways. Even though they make it with a long time
vision, at what cost matters lot? Destroying the environment and nature, forest
and farming which upholds our life and make certain we live. What kind of development
are we taking ahead or presenting to our future generation is to inhale dust and
smoke. Forests and trees are our air purifies and if we lose these filters how could
we breathe healthy? Any development that destroys nature and
environment should be prevented as much possible.
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| A part of ghats section and reserve forest the govt. want to destruct. |
The other important roads like Tindivanam
to Tiruvannamalai and Villupuram to Thanjavur were still partially done. For every New Moon lakhs of devotees visit
Tiruvannamalaai for Kirivalam (Circumambulation of the mountain) which means
thousands of vehicles and buses take the Tindivanam road which is in bad state
because of abandoned road work for many years. I wonder why the CM is serious
about this project when a lot of problems, which need immediate actions, are
pending on… 8 lanes for this stretch of road only gives doubts. Not more than a
decade back highways has lot of trees along the roadside but they were all cut
down for the widening 4 lane roads and no trees were re-planted as promised by
authorities and our highways on all side are bare enough now. Stopping the car
even for an emergency on the roadside is difficult these days without a tree
for shadow. Though Salem was his region doesn’t mean he has to execute this
project that only destroys farm and forest landscape. We are in need of more
green space and forestry to preserve our rain sources as we are inadequate of water, bringing the Cauvery
should be our prior and preserving the environment is much.
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| The already enriched green road and what better the government could do on it? |
Saturday, June 09, 2018
Lovedale ! Railway Station
It’s not easy for a wheelchair bound to board a train and traveling in a mountain railway is
out of dreams but I always wish to visit at least a railway station of the
century old Nilgiri Mountain Railway. Many movies have captured the beauty of
the Nilgiri Mountain Railway and its picture postcard railway stations and smoky
stream engines chugging out of the stations and making journeys through scenic
mountains. Lovedale is a popular location for the climax scene in Tamil hit
film Moonram Pirai. Last time when I visit Nilgiris in April 2017, I was intent
to check any of the railway stations of the Nilgiri Mountain Railway and
Lovedale was my prior.
As I took an
unusual road to Ooty, I passed Lovedale before entering the town and found it
wasn’t far away from the town, so we passed without stopped there with a plan
to return later leisure. Making it certain, the cottage we stayed was close to
the Lovedale and opposite to the road leading there from the Ooty-Coonoor main
road. We stayed at a place called Fun City, on the outskirt of Ooty and it is a
place formerly seems to be an amusement park which later turned into property
development and many cottages and homestay keeps emerging out there. Lovedale is
just 6 minute drive from there and it was almost afternoon when we checked the
lovely (Lovedale) railway station.
I had no idea
about the timing of the train’s arrival and passing the station but we learned
only after we reached there that this was the time of the arrival of a diesel
engine with passengers from Ooty. Actually we packed the lunch when moved out
of the homestay and wanted to make to the railway station after having the
lunch, when we already parked at the station parking. It was 1.30 pm and the
station guard told the train will arrive in 10 minutes, so we postponed the
lunch and waited for the train. Meanwhile I took some lovely photos around the
station where we are the only visitors and various aspects of the station attracted
me.
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| The pretty blue lovedale railway station |
Lovedale, like
all other Nilgiri railway stations, continue to operate from its original
structure and it shares similar architecture as well. Coonoon being the
junction railway station and Ooty as important and final destination on the
mountain journey comes up with big operation rooms and passenger hub. But
Lovedale is a passing railway station and only local people seems to board on
and off and sometime tourist get down and take some snaps while the train halt
for few minutes there. I actually thought the entire Nilgiri mountain railway
(runs for 46 km) has turned into diesel locomotive but what I really don’t know
was the stream engines are in continuous operation between Mettupalayam and
Coonoor and only further upstream to Ooty (18km) is operated on diesel.
The train
entered the station at 1.50 pm and moved exactly after 2 minutes halt and the
train was fully loaded with passengers. As I was excited taking photos on the
emerging/halted train, the passengers were curious watching me, taking photos
from the wheelchair. When the train enters the platform the station guard exchange
the rings (which looked like a wireless tennis bat) with the driver, which I
Google to know is a “railway signalling process and the ring is a token, a
locomotive driver is required to have or see before entering onto a particular
section of single track”. In the picture above u could see the guards ready to
exchange the rings, but the driver dropped the ring on the platform and took
the ring from the station guard and it’s perhaps due to the speed.
As soon the
train moved out of the station, the guard went up a small platform on the
opposite side and changed the track gear. In short time it started to drizzle
and the entire ambiance turn wonderful and much lovely and I really enjoyed the
moment from the station porch, where I found couple of house sparrows making
way through the portico. Though I hesitate to look into the station master
room, through the open door I able to capture the token instrument placed on
the table along an old telephone. The Nilgiri mountain railway began its
construction in 1886 completed in 1908 with the building of track between
Coonoor and Ooty, where Lovedale is interlinked.
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Monday, June 04, 2018
RGB Monday
A colourful restaurant and café on
Ooty-Coonoor main road!
Panda atrium is an open hall type
restaurant with a view overlooking the pretty Ketti valley. Though I haven’t
visited the café, I find it colourful to shot from moving car and the
restaurant seems to treat different taste buds and from their menu (in online)
I find they are more specific on Vietnam and Chinese food. Wish I could visit
this café if I was to Ooty again and the pictures shot last year in April.
Friday, June 01, 2018
The winner shines alone…
... in the
radiant hard work,
vibrant mindfulness
and vigilant downfall.
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Wednesday, May 30, 2018
My Moon
எண்ணற்à®± கண்கள் உன்à®®ேல்
கருவிà®´ிகள் காதல் கொள்ளுà®®்
வெண்ணிà®± மங்கை!
தாரகை à®®ுகம் கண்டு
தனிà®®ையுà®®் தயங்கி நிக்குà®®்
என் துணை நீ என்à®±ு
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Numerous eyes on you,
black irises will catch love
on white woman (moon)!
black irises will catch love
on white woman (moon)!
seclusion hesitates,
that you my companion tonight!
Monday, May 28, 2018
RGB Monday
Man selling colourful
little toys for kids in front of Sims Park, Coonoor. I guess what he’s having
in had is bubble toy that used for blowing bubbles.
I have been to Coonoor
twice but unable to visit the Sims Park which has unique species of trees and plants
that many native to this mountains aka Nilgiris. The park is created on a natural slope
of mountain; with many steps leading down the park make it an inaccessible landscape for a wheelchair bound. But it’s a nice place for nature loving people alike.
Thursday, May 24, 2018
Surprise Waterfall
I have been on
the road to Poombarai few times and every time I come across this curve of the
beautiful winding ghat (road) of Kodaikanal, and a rock face with a formation
of cascading make wish to see waterfalls alike. Unusual we visit Kodaikanal
during summer, which is quite a dry season here where even mountains aren’t
exception and I ever seen water falling this way except for little springs here
and there. The southwest monsoon begins only in the first week of June and in
2016 I visited Kodaikanal for second time in a year, in the month of July,
which was the mid of monsoon so we caught between heavy showering as we proceed
towards Poombarai, a beautiful mountain village about 20 km from Kodaikanal.
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| Since raining I shot these photos through windshield while the wipers goes down |
I have no words
to describe how surprise it was for me to see water cascading through the rock
face of the mountain. I know it’s the monsoon rain gave life to this cascading and
ages of flow of water during rain has turned into a beautiful rock formation which
made my day through the fall. The road to Poombarai and beyond is my favourite stretch
of road winding through pine forest, forested valleys with spotted wildlife and
unlike the Kodaikanal road, its hassle free and pristine nature to inspire to
take it again and again.
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Friday, May 18, 2018
Friday Review: Iravukku Aayiram Kangal
After long time went to drive-in theatre to watch Iravukku Aayiram Kangal (the Night has
Thousand Eyes) learning that the Tamil action thriller film has come out well.
It was last September I went to the theatre and I mainly avoided going to
theatre thinking of high ticket price which has gone up from ₹ 120 to ₹ 167 per
head apart parking ticket as ₹ 70! There wasn’t a film released for 45 days
from March to mid-April protesting against this high rate in theatres but still
there isn’t difference and I feel ₹ 120 could be the fair amount.
Arulnithi is one
of my favourite actors and I like his choice of subjects and realistic acting
which is one important reason for me to watch this movie in theatre and being a
night show it well suited the subject and mood. I rarely go to night show when
I feel the movie is worth watching in theatre despite any trouble. Iravukku
Aayiram Kangal is an excellent thriller surrounds a mysterious murder where the
protagonist (Arulnithi) is suspected and he go on his own trial, after escape
from the police, to prove his innocent.
The screenplay
is so gripping and keeps glue to the seat and most of the scenes surrounds that
one night put watchful eyes from others. The movie has lot of plays, gaming
within one another to hook with the subject. Arulnithi as a call taxi driver
picks up love with Mahima Nambiar, who isn’t cute but also smartly performed.
The songs are cut short and adapts to the scenario which is one of the plus to
keep it engaged. And all other characters did their job well and Ajmal with
chocolate boy look did smart villainy and after Anjathe and KO he got to shine
in negative shade once again.
Directorial debut
Mu.Maran had created an expectation from him by building a solid screenplay around
a simple storyline, and made certain the string doesn’t loose anywhere. The
highlight of the movie was the climax even though the movie has twist and turns
all over the subject, it gets intensify as we near the end. The cinematography
is truly appreciate and it’s the core area where it played well to sustain the
mood esp. during the night scenes and Arulnithi balanced the tense and love at
the right level.
Iravukku
Aayiram Kangal is watchful and worth watching in theatre!
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Following is a
shot of Yellow Daylilies bloomed against the wall of Tea Museum in Munnar… to join Floral Friday Foto
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Tuesday, May 15, 2018
Hideaway
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| An awesome woodhouse hides amid woods, near Kodaikanal |
Sorrow fills the heart
yet nothing had lost
emotions gush to freeze
at the brim to overflow.
yet nothing had lost
emotions gush to freeze
at the brim to overflow.
In the flow of river
obstacles are normal
but life isn’t silky pebbles
to wash off easily ashore.
obstacles are normal
but life isn’t silky pebbles
to wash off easily ashore.
Rowing is pleasure
only if the water is calm
in the rough sea waves
each day is a challenge.
only if the water is calm
in the rough sea waves
each day is a challenge.
Day and night exchange
giving chance each other
to hide the emotions in dark
and smile while sunshine.
giving chance each other
to hide the emotions in dark
and smile while sunshine.
Thursday, May 10, 2018
Mangoes ?
During a drive
on ECR (east coast road) we come across some farm houses and found this tree thrive with fruits
inside a fenced house. I actually thought the fruits were mangoes and this was
shot last summer, so due to the season I was thinking it was mangoes until
showing it to my grandma today to make sure but she told it wasn’t mangoes. The fruits
were hanging a lot from the tree and what u sees is just a branch of fruits hang
close to the hand and can be plucked even sitting from the SUV, but we didn’t do
that to get unnecessary scolding from the security.
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| Do anyone know the name of this fruit species? |
We also
come across this (pic below) simple wooden gate, leading to an abandoned or uncared farmhouse
or land, worn out its white paint.
Linking this post for Good Fences by Gosia
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Monday, May 07, 2018
RGB Monday
Colorful Street Shopping

I didn’t shop
anything there and this is a scene outside the Bryant Park in Kodaikanal and these
shops sell mostly t-shits, sweaters, handbags and hats. The road along the Kodaikanal lake has many shops alike selling colorful things to attract tourist.
Have a nice week ahead
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Thursday, May 03, 2018
An update and Azalea
Mom’s surgery goes off really well and she’s responding as well and shows nice improvement within 24 hours.
Talked to her in morning through video calling and she sounds good and
confident in vocal as if she is ready to go home. But she’s supposed to stay
two more days at hospital in doctors monitor and treatment. Things weren’t bad as expected and dad taking
care of my needs with the help of my two uncles and brother and he was at
hospital yesterday from noon to late evening and the operation took 1 ½ hour
and she’s sent to room in an hour. Heard that she haven’t slept last night
fully because of pain, which has reduced a bit only in morning and she was able
to attend the nature's call normally and will be taking food as well.
I really need to thank you all
for including her in your prayers and sending greetings for her good well. I
hope she recover sooner than we expect even though she has to take 3 months rest
to completely heal to do other things and being an active woman all her life taking
rest should be difficult for her and for us to prevent her from working. Our dear ones (and also
close relatives) are helping us in whatever ways they could and it’s their sheer
love and care turn things work for us and such occasions are truly blissful to experience
relationship and its core meaning of love.
Wish we never forget their aid that comes out expecting none. I leave
you some photos on Azalea; I shot during my visit to Bryant Park, Kodaikanal.
Azalea is a flowering shrub in the genus Rhododendron and bloom
in spring, with flowers often lasting several weeks. Azalea is shade tolerant
and prefers living near or under trees, and many cities in the United States
have festivals in the spring celebrating the blooms of the azalea. I have no
idea about this flower until checked Betsy blog on Biltmore Garden.
Linking this post for Floral Friday Foto
Tuesday, May 01, 2018
Another level of challenge… waits ahead
A very difficult phase is waiting for us ahead. Before I say why, I need to tell my life isn’t myself but made of
two more lives and do you want me to say what the other two was? Of course, who
could be other than my mom and dad? We three were a ring of cycle and any
damage or cause happens at any part of the circle will affect the rotate of the
cycle. From the beginning, they were the two pillars supporting my entire life,
though every parent support their children but the things carried out to be haven’t
been same and my life is totally depend on them although they gave me complete
freedom of thought and decision making of my own which has never been apart
them. There have been many occasions where one has to take care of me in
absence of another and they have managed it well all these years despite the
difficulties but the upcoming days can’t be same as mom is waiting for a
surgery tomorrow.
She has been suffering from prolapsed
uterus for last few years and doctor has suggested her to go for operation to
remove the uterus before it become complicate but she continued to postpone all
these days only because of me – thinking who could lift me or help dad if she
got operation. Because she was advised not (at all) to lift anything heavy post
operation and complete rest for 45 days. Though the 45 days rest couldn’t be
that matter since dad could manage (taking care of me) with the help of my
brother and uncle, and the aunt and grandma could help making dishes. But quite
no to lifting (for mom) will sure make a broken hand for dad and we can’t
expect others to be there all the time and dad too has works to do and leaving
alone mom could be very difficult. Though she could help me all other ways
rather than lifting, will add load on dad and there will be the need of Hoist lot.
Lately she was feeling very
difficult and pain in abdomen and it forced her to look out for a relief and
remedy where there is the only option, an operation to acquire relief. She had
never undergone a surgery in her life and being the first one, anxiety is not
an easy thing to come out though she looks stronger and confidence and wanting
for a relief is what I could see in her. She will be admitted to the hospital
in evening for further check-ups before going into the operation tomorrow.
Initially we prefer for a laparoscopic surgery but due to prolapse doctor
decided to go for the surgical operation and she would be in hospital for next 3
days. I wish she got the best treatment and nothing goes out of planning (because
we lost our great grandma a decade back due to a surgical mistake for the same
cause) and this should be the first and last operation in her life. I have seen
her suffering all these days and when she lifts me she would feel pain at
abdomen later but despite these she continued to support me and I wish, and
hope you too wish her the best, great sigh of relief.
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